When people talk shit

When people talk shit...

**PLEASE NOTE THIS POST IS NOT SPEAKING ABOUT ANY PERSON(S) THAT I HAVE MET AND OR KNOW. ALL IDEAS, WHAT IF'S AND PEOPLE IN THIS POST ARE MADE UP AND FAKE. IF THEY SOUND LIKE THINGS YOU'VE DONE OR SOUND LIKE YOU, THAT IS NOT BECAUSE THEY'RE BASED ON YOU, IT'S BECAUSE YOU'VE IN YOUR LIFE, ACTED AS I AM REQUESTING PEOPLE DO NOT ACT!!!**

I always find it quite fascinating when people talk shit about other people. Why? Because you know soon as they start talking about another person, 99% of what they're telling you, is pure bullshit! If they're talking smack about someone, it's because that person has either pissed them off in some way, they're jealous of them of what they have, do or how they are or they're just that bored and insecure with their own lives they have nothing better to do with their time than rip someone else down!

I always see these kinds of people as weak, small people. I don't think of them as tough, powerful or smart; because they aren't. Talking about someone else makes you small and weak. If you don't have the balls enough to go talk to someone face-to-face, you're weak. If you have to break someone down to build yourself up, you're weak. And I have zero time for weak people in my world.

I've worked far too hard to get where I am today to let anyone bring me down with their pathetic words and gossip. And I find those who follow in the path of those who gossip just as pathetic! If you believe what someone says about someone else and take it for truth, instead of having the balls to go ask the person themselves if it's true; you're just as pathetic as the person starting rumours!

You are NOT sheep! Well, most people are but, that is a WHOLE other blog post!

You're not sheep, you're not mute, you can ask people questions. Don't take what others say at face value, there's a reason others are saying things to YOU and NOT to the person they're speaking of.

And let me remind you that NONE of you are better than anyone else! I don't care how much money your family makes, it's ONLY money. I don't care if you go to the city and shop ONLY at brand name stores if you own a brand new vehicle if you go on fancy holidays if you own a business... if makes you NO better than ANYONE else. Your ACTIONS and how you show yourself to the world is what makes you good. If you have an UGLY personality, with a BAD reputation from your OWN actions, all the money in the world can't help you be a better person.

Take, for example, the guy who lives in your community that is a felon, drug dealer, drug addict, thief; the guy who has been in and out of jail, who your whole community hates and distrusts. If he was to tell you something about someone else, are you going to believe him? I would hope NOT! And when he goes around telling people he is a changed man, good man, doesn't do these things anymore, he's learned his lesson; do you believe him? NO! You know why? Because his ugly side has already proved his true colours. He is an ugly human being and there's NO CHANGING THAT! You don't change overnight! He will still sell drugs, do drugs, steal (from your shed, garages and homes), he will still spread nasty rumours about others to get the attention OFF HIMSELF. He will still lie and cheat to make money. Yet in HIS mind, he's better than everyone else, he's a good man and different and everyone see's that! (in his mind).

Or, what about the elderly woman who thinks she's sweet, loved by many and is a saint in her community? The woman who picks on those who distrust her son who is the above... she will stalk them, harass them and slander them to the point where they can't stand to even live in the community anymore because waiting for her to kick the bucket and end this endless cycle of torture won't come fast enough! A woman who thinks her closet is EMPTY, yet has more secrets to it than the Bermuda Triangle! I mean what kind of woman can call herself a god loving woman, a saint when she steals from a church? When she harasses people, and enables the thieving and drugs to go on in her family? A woman who BULLIES her other family into doing what she wants and helping who SHE wants and being around who SHE wants. A woman how makes little kids cry, and slanders many? Doesn't she know she is a joke in her community? Doesn't she know that people AVOID her at all costs because they can't STAND to be AROUND her? Doesn't she know she's made a laughing stock out of her own family name?! She has to know... right? Because everyone else knows.

OR what about the people who listen to the monsters who spread rumours? The ones who have the perfect family picture, act kindly to your face and talk shit behind your back? They are the WORST! Because they're two-faced! They'll listen to the rumours, spread them, avoid YOU and yet PRETEND to be KIND to you to your face! Why would they listen to the rumours? Are they than NARROW MINDED? And for them to attend church every Sunday acting this way? I am surprised they don't set on fire soon as they walk through the doors!! Isn't it in the Bible not to talk shit??? Be kind to others?? LOVE THY FUCKING NEIGHBOR!?!? I am pretty sure it is!!

But you know who is the WORST of the WORST? Your own friends and family! The ones who are right in your home, in your life, in your face, Family should NEVER talk shit about family... They're the only family you have.

And if YOU seem to think this post is ABOUT you... then that is NOT my issue. I have NOT stated one name and or fact regarding ANY person I directly know in my life. These are all just "what if's" and "fictional people and ideas". If you think this post is about you, you need to reevaluate your life and what you're doing and how you're acting because your conscience is making you feel guilty and that is your fault. You'll want to change shit up and treat people better! I KNOW not to post things about actual people, actual facts without permission. I know the laws of defamation and harassment. DO YOU?!