Who people THINK I am compared to who I REALLY am
Who people THINK I am compared to who I REALLY am.
People always assume you're someone you're not. They never really take the time to get to know you, the real you. They'll take the word of someone else of who that person thinks you are and believe it to be true. They'll take something that happened to you or something you did and assume that's who you are. That's never the case, you're never who people "think" you are.
Here's a list of who people think I am compared to who I "really" am.
They think I'm LAZY...
what they don't know is that I am running a home business of freelance writing, blogging AND I care for 3 son's, HOME SCHOOL 3 son's, take care of MANY furbabies, take care of my home AND myself and health. I am FAR from lazy. Just because I'm not out running a marathon or working a 9-5 job any more doesn't mean I'm not working my ASS OFF.
They think I'm a STRICT parent. Reality is, I am ... kind of. I don't allow my kids to hang around other asshole kids who get into all kind of trouble, they don't stay out all hours of the night, I ALWAYS know where they are and who they're with. I have them do chores and help me around the house, care for their own pets and we home school. So, yeah, I kind of AM strict. That one is 1/2 right.
People have said I'm either DOING DRUGS or SELLING DRUGS. NEITHER ARE TRUE. I haven't done any kind of drugs since I was a teenager. I tried weed... did NOT like it. I would NEVER sell drugs, personally, I think drug dealers are STUPID, USELESS and lazy. GET A REAL JOB!! I'd be the WORST kind of drug dealer because I HATE people and have such HIGH anxiety! This is the worst assumption and lie about me.
They think I'm STUPID.... HAHAHAHAHA!!!! Funny thing is I am FAR from it. I don't flaunt my intelligence like some, and at times I don't act it neither. I like to be relaxed and just chill in my own life. I don't need to prove to ANYONE how intelligent I am. If you want to know, read some of my blogs or things I've had published.
They've said I'm MEAN... Am I? Maybe, but again, I treat you accordingly. If I'm mean to you, that's ON YOU. You've deserved it. Sometimes I am mean with my words and that can be by accident, because I am BRUTALLY HONEST. I won't sugar coat shit and sometimes that comes across as mean... #SorryNotSorry ;)
They'll tell you I'm STUBBORN. Yeah, this one is 100% TRUTH!!! I am fully stubborn. I am a Taurus through and through. I'll debate you to the death of me and once I am stuck on something, you're NEVER changing my mind and once I say NO or GOOD BYE, I don't change my mind, give second chances or look back. I am as stubborn as they come.
They think I DRINK A LOT!! HAHAHAHA! I don't drink AT ALL!! Number one, I can NOT drink because of all the medications I take for my diabetes, high blood pressure and cholesterol among other things. I also don't drink because my KIDS do NOT like it. Plus I don't find any fun in it any more.
They've called me FAT!!! Yeah and it's really HURT my feelings to hear that. I used to be 118lbs before I had ANY of my 4 kids. Now, not so much. I have PCOS (Poly-cystic Ovarian syndrome), which makes you gain weight, I have diabetes, the insulin makes you gain weight, I've had 4 kids, that makes it hard to lose weight and I'm 41, that also makes it harder to lose weight. Plus, my Aunt is bigger, my Grandma is bigger, all the women on my "father's" side of the family are bigger... I am working on losing weight, taking Ozempic and watching what I eat. I've lost some weight but NO ONE has the RIGHT to call me or anyone else FAT... EVER
Some say I'm MOODY. That's probably 1/2 true. I really TRY hard not to be too moody. At times I really can't help it. When my sugars are out of whack, because of my diabetes, it fucks with my moods and can make me moody. I can snap on the drop of a dime at times but again, I REALLY TRY not to be moody to those who don't deserve it.
Those are the things I can think of that people assume I'm like but really I'm not or I'm only sort of like. Don't EVER assume things about someone. Give them a chance, get to know them; they may surprise you.
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