Rumors are carred by haters and accepted by idiots

Rumors... where do I begin about this? There's so much I can say and probably shouldn't say but, I am going to because I just don't put up with bullshit, lies and rumors. I am the person that will call you out on your lies and bullshit and I don't care where, when or how I do it.

I guess I'll start with rumors that have pissed me off the most. That's probably a great place to start. I will WARN YOU I am mouthy, a bit ignorant with my words but I PROMISE YOU I am 100% truthful.

I find this above quote to be 100% right. Rumours are made by unhappy souls. People who want to hurt others because their lives are unhappy, miserable and they want to pass that misery on to others, to make themselves feel better for that 5 seconds. I never believe a rumour. I like to find out things for myself and judge people for myself. Just because someone says something about someone else, does not make it true. It's their opinion of someone and their opinion is not always right.

There was a rumour going around my small town about someone I know personally that was very hurtful to her. I'll call her 'Jody' (I won't use real names to protect those involved). Jody is a young lady in her very early 20's. She has a 2 year old beautiful girl and was pregnant with her soon to be son. Well, this guy, I'll call him 'Justin', wanted to date Jody and she wasn't interested so Justin decided that he'd make up this stupid ass rumour that she didn't know who the father of her baby was! She was in a relationship with a guy I'll called 'Lance'. She and Lance were happy within their relationship and preparing for the baby. Once this rumour started to go around this happy relationship became very strained and almost broke them up! Friends and family of Lance were also spreading this rumour around instead of defending them. Jody isn't a slut, she doesn't sleep around, she was with Lance and ONLY Lance but because Justin was saying it "might" be his baby, Lance didn't know how to defend Jody and really wasn't trying too hard to.
The pathetic part, Justin was asked by ME to his face if this rumour was true and he said and I quote, "No, I never slept with Jody. I am trying to put an end to this rumour as well." Pathetic piece of shit. I knew he was lying and trying to cover his own ass. He was at the bar telling people he thought this might be his baby! Many different people told me the same thing... how could many different people be lying about the same thing when they're all from different groups of friends? Not many of them hung out with the same groups of people. Even the cab driver in town knew about this rumour!! How fucking pathetic is that?
So, I called Justin out on his bullshit and lies again, telling him to end this rumour or I'd lay all his shit bare! I'd tell everyone his shit so he knew how it felt. I also told Lance to end the shit with his family also spreading it around too or there'd be hell to pay. People were telling Lance to get a paternity test, that's how bad it was. He knew he didn't need to... it was just so pathetic and ignorant.
I don't know why people are so fucking STUPID as to believe any kind of rumour instead of finding shit out for themselves. Not one person asked Jody if it was true. No one questioned her, instead they spoke behind her back and helped the rumour spread like wild fire.

After the baby was born, the rumour still went on for a bit but ended quickly. Lance and his mother finally stepped up and told people to fuck right off. It should never have come to being spread around, ever and never should have gone on as long as it did. People are pathetic and have nothing better to do with their lives and time.
The part that pisses me off, some of the people spreading the rumour are low life idiots. One lady who spread it is a total slut! She fucks anything with a dick. Justin is a fucking tool!! He tried to tell us that he has a BRAIN TUMOUR and is DYING within the YEAR!!! Yet, he has no symptoms, hasn't seem a medical professional, hasn't told his family and "forgot" he even told this to us. Do NOT FUCK WITH ME when it comes to brain tumours and cancer. My Mother died of that, I know what the symptoms are, what you'd go through and what kind of pain you'd be in. I know how it would deteriorate your entire body. Fucking idiot!!!
He also told us his ex girlfriend was pregnant, lost the baby at 7 months, didn't tell him, "hid from him" for the whole 7 months of pregnancy and buried the baby without him being part of it or knowing.  He never told his parents this one either, because it's 100% a LIE!!! 
I don't know if he was lying for attention, because it made him feel big, if he didn't know the difference between honesty and lies or if he's just a compulsive liar. Whatever the reason, it makes him look like a fucking fool!

This is the same guy who can't clean his bedroom, who leaves food to rot on his bedroom floor, garbage all over the place, drinks alcohol like a fucking fish, who sleeps on a mattress on the floor, who thought it was smart to plug 6 extension cords into one another and have plastic bags on top of them, who had 2 dresser drawers full of dirty dishes, who didn't do his own laundry for over 3 months.
Yeah, he's fucking nasty ass. When you live this way and think it's okay, you need some serious mental health help. No normal person lives this way and is okay with it.

As for the bitches that were spreading the rumours, I told them if I found out who was spreading these rumours around, I'd knock their fucking blocks off. They don't speak about Jody or say fuck all any more. They don't speak to or about anyone I know of now and hardly look in my direction. I might be 41, out of shape but I'll still KICK FUCKING ASS LIKE I WAS 18. I have a short temper and even shorter fuse. Do not fuck around with me when I am pissed the fuck off.

Two things I am overly protective of; my kids number one and two, my friends. Anyone fucks with either and I will go in to overdrive protection mode. I'd literally DIE to protect my kids and come close to the same for my dearest of friends. Just who I am and how I'm built.

People can talk shit about me, spread rumours about me all they want. Not a whole lot they can really say. I don't let shit really bother me. I let shit roll off my shoulders. You want to talk shit, go ahead. You can also KISS MY ASS while you're behind me talking shit behind my back. Just remember, I can lay your shit bare too! "Eye for an eye said the kitty cat in the blue rain coat. But, when you've lost both your eyes, it leaves the whole world blind." That's a quote I heard in a movie when I was 15 and has stuck with me since because, it's true. Think about it.

Do the world a favour, don't spread rumours about people. Be mature and respectful, be kind and just ask them if what you've heard is true. Remember though, there are always 3 truths to every story. Person A's truth, person B's truth and the truth in between. Somewhere in the middle of two people's truth is the actual truth. You have to see in between to find it. Everyone has their own version of something, their own way of how they saw and experienced something. Doesn't mean they're wrong, just means they saw it or experienced it different than you or someone else did.
A bold faced lie however, is never acceptable. Don't lie, ever. Brutal honesty, even if it hurts someone else is always the best way to be. That's how I am. I'll be brutally honest with everyone, if it hurts your feelings, so be it; at least you can't call me a liar, you can call me a Bitch, not a liar.

Grow up people and just worry about your own damn lives because I am 100% sure you have shit hidden away in your closets you don't want the world knowing or having spread around. I know none of you who spread the rumours aren't perfect. I know some of you are "dying" of brain cancer... (yeah... okay) and some of you have a baby that 'died' (baby that never existed), some of you fuck everything with a dick, beat your kids, have so much shit going on in your own lives I don't know how you have time to talk shit. Just grow the fuck up and seriously, SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!